Grin with Grace – Living Life’s Journey with Grace and a Grin

Deb’s Dozen: Tough times? Grin! Insecure? Grin! Happy? Grin! In everything—Grin with Grace!

Grin with Grace by Kathy Carlton Willis is a wonderful Bible study on the action of God’s grace in our lives. Kathy has done a word search on the word grace. She presents us the Scripture verses along with the appropriate context and questions for us to answer that are thought-provoking and insightful.

Kathy has divided each chapter in the book into five sections: real-life stories and observations; a grace word study; life application; expanded life applications to help us be instruments of grace to others; and a Grace Challenge—a common situation that may arise in our lives and the challenge to think about how we would handle that situation with grace.

I appreciated the stories and observations. Kathy is very transparent and shares her feelings and thoughts openly. I could really relate to most of what she said. The stories brought grins to my face and brought to mind many memories—some good, some bad.

The grace word study was well-focused and the questions following each applicable Scripture verse were thought provoking. I loved that Kathy always kept the context of the verse in mind—one of my pet peeves is when people quote Scripture verses without any thought to the situations surrounding the verse. Kathy clearly appreciates that we must look at the whole counsel of God.

The life applications are relevant and, of course, the carrying out of the application would be different for each person doing the study. One in particular that I appreciated was her explication of six concepts that team up with grace and her urging us to determine how to grow these virtues in our lives: mercy, peace, comfort, love, hope, and truth.

The expanded applications are stories of people who really have integrated that aspect of grace into their lives and have demonstrated that grace in the life of others.

The Grin with Grace Challenge was an interesting finish to each chapter. Perhaps the most thought-provoking of all, they hit very close to home. Again, real-life situations with which we all can identify. The one that hit closest to home for me was, “there’s nothing you want more than to earn the praise of your mother. You have something wonderful to share with her, but instead of commending you for the accomplishment, she finds a way to respond with criticism or comparison. Do you bring up your frustrations with her or alter your expectations so you have more peace in your life?” I thank God daily that Mom and I worked through that during her last years when she lived with us. I know without a doubt that she was proud of me—she told me so frequently during those times. But in my early years, I really had to bite my tongue to not respond to the comparisons and criticism.

All in all, this is a wonderful Bible study. I have suggested to the wife of our pastor that she consider using Grin with Grace for the fall women’s Bible study at our church. But even if she doesn’t, I will be working through Grin with Grace myself over the next months. I’m positive that you will also love this book. Five stars! Grin with Grace

To quote her bio from the back of the book, “Kathy Carlton Willis writes and speaks with a balance of funny and faith—whimsy and wisdom. Not many funny girls also have Bible degrees! Kathy’s a pastor’s wife, which gives her plenty of opportunities to grin with grace. She shines the light on issues that hold women back and inspires their own lightbulb moments. Almost a thousand of Kathy’s articles have been published in books, magazines, newspapers, and online publications. She’s affiliated with several Christian writer and speaker organizations and serves as a consultant in the industry.” Kathy is someone you’ll want to know better: check out her website, www.kathycarltonwillis.com.

A Destination Wedding – A Lasting Love?

Deb’s Dozen: Vanessa and Ted are getting married—a destination wedding—a lasting love?

Vanessa and Ted are getting married. Vanessa is dreaming of their perfect wedding in Denver. Ted has other ideas. He’s an ER doc and there’s a medical conference going on in Florida—they’ll have a destination wedding! They can get married, then he can go to the conference and catch up on some CEUs. He’s always so practical—but Vanessa yearns for romance. Ted convinces her to go to Destin to do some advance planning and Vanessa reluctantly agrees.

She’s so hesitant because Destin is where she met her first love, Logan. Besides sharing the same last name, Hollister, they’d shared their dreams and their lives. Now eight years divorced, Vanessa doesn’t want to run into Logan again. However, Ted is not to be denied. So Vanessa’s off to FL—after a detour to Montana to see her dad who’s had a heart attack.

In Florida, she hooks up with her friend, Mindy, who is delighted to hear from her again. The night before her lunch with Mindy, she walks the beach trying to erase the long ago memories from her mind. Suddenly she sees a group of people pointing out to sea—there she sees an arm raised in distress and realizes the person is drowning. Jumping into the water, she swims toward to boy, only to have him fight her rescue attempt. Another man sees the struggle and swims out to help too. As the two of them bring the boy to shore, Vanessa realizes the stranger is none other than her ex-husband, Logan. Uh, oh!

A Crazy Little Thing Called Love is a wonderful story. I enjoyed this tale of romance and unrequited love. I enjoyed getting to know and understand Vanessa and Ted and Logan and Mindy. I enjoyed learning a bit more about storm chasing and hurricanes and paramedics and rescues. Lots of twists and turns and adventure and love. You’ll enjoy the story too. Four stars. Crazy Little Thing Called Love: A Destination Wedding Novel.

I love Beth’s bio from the back of the book—I can tell we’d be friends if we met. “Beth K. Vogt is a nonfiction author who said she’d never write fiction. After saying she’d never marry a doctor or anyone in the military, she is happily married to a former Air Force family physician. Beth believes God’s best is often behind the door marked ‘Never.’ An established magazine writer and editor, Beth’s debut novel, Wish You Were Here, was released in May 2022. She writes inspirational contemporary romance because she believes there is more to happily ever after than the fairy talks tell us.” Get to know Beth better at www.bethvogt.com

Howard Books via the Litfuse Publicity Group gave me a copy of Crazy Little Thing Called Love in exchange for my candid review.

Speaker to Speaker: The Essential Speaker’s Companion

Deb’s Dozen: Everything a speaker needs to run a successful business in one package.

Oh, how I wish I’d had Speaker to Speaker: The Essential Speaker’s Companion when I launched my speaking career twenty-odd years ago. All the mistakes I made, all the situations I faced, all the materials I needed are covered thoroughly in this book. Kathy has such a pleasant tone and engaging way of writing that I thoroughly enjoyed reading her tips.

After first encouraging speakers to cover themselves and their businesses in prayer, Kathy gets down to the nitty-gritty of the speaking business and craft. Kathy covers everything from setting up your business to learning the speaking craft; from figuring out your market niche to smoothing out your rough edges; from lining up your resources to understanding and using social networks. All of these areas are covered in detail with lots of resources listed as well.

Perhaps my favorite part of the book was Kathy’s paraphrase of Matthew 6:19-33 for communicators. My favorite verses are:

19. Don’t desire the treasures of this earth, such as selfish success and advancement at any cost. The results from this are temporary at best, and can easily be lost.
22. When you are plugged in to God, you have light. When your motives reflect His light, you reflect His glow …
24. No communicator can serve two masters …You cannot serve both God and money.
27. Can all your worries about speaking and writing add a single breath to your life?
33. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need …

This book is mandatory for anyone who speaks or hopes to speak! Five stars plus! You will not be disappointed with Kathy Carlton Willis’ Speaker to Speaker: The essential speaker’s companion.

Kathy is a writer, speaker, and platform coach. “… writes and kathy-carlton-willis-01speaks with a balance of funny and faith—whimsy and wisdom.” Previously a copyeditor and writer for several newspapers, she’s now a contributing writer for CBN.com among others.

Kathy graduated with honors from Bible College with degrees in Bible and Church Education. She and her husband, Russ, are in fulltime church ministry while she still finds time to work with her communications firm.

“Kathy shines, whether she’s shining the light on God’s writers and speakers, or reflecting God’s light during her speaking events.” To learn more about Kathy, go to kathycarltonwillis.com.